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BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP 
(Part One)

By Matthew Adedoyin


Good Evening Your Excellencies. It is indeed a great privilege to be on this platform. #PurposeCourse

Big thanks to James Asu @Purposeicon for hosting me on this great platform. God bless you sir. #PurposeCourse

Tonight, I will be teaching on BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP. #PurposeCourse

Relationship is critical to the growth of anybody in life. Your relationship will either make you better or make you bitter. #PurposeCourse

A lot of people approach singleness like its leprosy. For them, the end of a relationship is the beginning of another. #PurposeCourse

These people believe the only way they can be complete is being in a relationship. Relationship is not meant for someone to complete you. #PurposeCourse

 If you are not whole as an individual, you will just be jumping from one relationship to another looking for someone to complete you. #PurposeCourse

 If your wholesomeness or completeness has been defined by being with someone, you will want to stay in any relationship even an abusive one. #PurposeCourse

Relationship should not be seen as a child’s play. It takes wholesomeness and completeness to make a good choice. #PurposeCourse

 If your relationship brings nothing but drama to your life that might be a sign you’re in a wrong relationship. #PurposeCourse

Life is too short to waste time with anyone who doesn’t really appreciate you. #PurposeCourse

If your relationship does not inspire you to be the best person you can be, you might be mortgaging your destiny by still remaining in such a toxic relationship. #PurposeCourse

You do not need someone to complete you; you need someone to share your completeness with. #PurposeCourse

 By being complete, your singleness or being in a relationship will be by choice. #PurposeCourse

Let’s take a quick look at the meaning of the word LOVE. #PurposeCourse

Love is an act of expressing God by consciously deciding to be committed to someone. #PurposeCourse

 But if your paradigm about love and relationship is wrong, you will be spending your time with the wrong person in the name of love. #PurposeCourse

 Don’t lose yourself trying to find the love you need for yourself in someone else. #PurposeCourse


You must have been heartbroken before, someone might have jilted you…. That’s not the end of the world. Love still exists. #PurposeCourse


The aforementioned tweets will lead us to the topic of the day. So, let’s get started. #PurposeCourse

So, before you learn relationship tips from another Hollywood or Nollywood movie, before you start a new relationship. #PurposeCourse

 Before you start giving your destiny to another person, there are few things you need to know. #PurposeCourse

These things are principles that help you navigate life easily. They are needed to achieve greatness and significance in life. #PurposeCourse

1.DISCOVER GOD #PurposeCourse

Relationship is not man’s idea, it is God’s and any relationship outside God’s standard would only lead to disappointment, resentment and bitterness. #PurposeCourse

Before you go into any relationship, you need to discover God for yourself. #PurposeCourse

God’s discovery is the key to self discovery and self discovery, a key to life transformation. #PurposeCourse

A key to discovering God is building a relationship with God. #PurposeCourse
 
To be Continued..... 

(Watch-out for Part Two)

Matthew Adedoyin is the Principal Consultant at ABSTINENCE ICON and President of Maximum Impact Network.

You can reach him on @AbstinenceIcon on 08087892722 or abstinenceicon@yahoo.com for any enquiries. #PurposeCourse

I want you to have a great relationship, enjoy the best of lives, and be sexually sane. It is possible. #PurposeCourse

For coaching, counselling, gisting, chatting, playing and learning, feel free to ping me – 55C67975 or call/whatsapp – 07060826979 #PurposeCourse

Culled from Purpose-Discovery Time-Out with OlaPurpose, #PurposeCourse, a weekly Twitter Basic Purpose Course host is @PurposeIcon, OlaPurpose James Asu, it comes up every friday from 5-7pm.

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Thank You.

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