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BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP 
(Part Two)

By Matthew Adedoyin

Good Evening Your Excellencies. It is indeed a great privilege to be on this platform. #PurposeCourse

Big thanks to James Asu @Purposeicon for hosting me on this great platform. God bless you sir. #PurposeCourse



Continuation From Part One.......

Relationship with God is not affiliated to your church/mosque attendance; it is not what your Pastor/Alfa told you about God. #PurposeCourse

 It is not being a worker in a building called house of God. It is a conscious STUDYING, MEDITATING and ACTING on God’s word. #PurposeCourse

 It is knowing God for yourself, it is speaking to God by yourself without your Pastor/Alfa. #PurposeCourse

It is hearing God by yourself and it is acting on God’s word by yourself without persuasion. #PurposeCourse

Your relationship with God teaches you to walk in love – Love that is other-centred; a deliberate and honest giving up of oneself to another person without manipulations or games. #PurposeCourse

In simple language, before you start “lovey dovey” affair, you need to have known God, the manufacturer of your life. #PurposeCourse

Until you find God, you may not know who exactly you are and how can you choose right when you don’t know YOU? #PurposeCourse

2. DISCOVER SELF #PurposeCourse

People who struggle through life are those with little or no information about who they really are. #PurposeCourse

Until you know exactly who you are, making the right marital choice can be difficult. How can you choose right when you don’t know YOU? #PurposeCourse

Self discovery will help you choose the right career path; will help you make the right marital choice; will help you choose the right network and even the right mentor. #PurposeCourse

If you do not know who you are, you will beg dog to sleep with you. #PurposeCourse

A person who is established in self discovery will know what he wants because he knows who he is. #PurposeCourse

A transformed life is a direct result of self discovery. #PurposeCourse

You are not the car you drive, you are not the platforms you’ve graced, you are not the cloths you wear, neither are you where you’ve been. #PurposeCourse

Answering the question of who you are with these answers is an abuse of personal discovery. It shows you don’t know you. #PurposeCourse

Knowing yourself must be built on depth of character. Sometimes, I hear spouses call themselves fools, witch or some names that would make one consider suicide. #PurposeCourse

I laugh because it takes a bigger fool to marry a fool; it takes the greatest wizard to marry a witch. It is only a great clown that would marry an unserious person. #PurposeCourse

Until you master yourself, you won’t be able to love yourself deeply and if you do not love yourself, you cannot love another person. #PurposeCourse

3. DISCOVER PURPOSE #PurposeCourse

Everything you sign up for must sync with your purpose – Your career, relationships, business, friends, anything at all – they must all have connections to your purpose in life. #PurposeCourse

@sobafemi wrote: ‘Purpose is the balance sheet of a man’s life. Singles who know this guard their days jealously’ #PurposeCourse

By finding purpose, it is easier to choose who to marry. #PurposeCourse

Inability to discover purpose can sometimes make you settle for anything that ordinarily, you may not like to be associated with. #PurposeCourse

Your purpose gives a roadmap to your future. It shows you what was inscribed in your spirit. #PurposeCourse

I love the way @MrThinkSmart explained it: “Purpose is the eternal destiny of a man inscribed in his spirit by His maker. #PurposeCourse

‘The soul’s capacity to reveal a man’s purpose is dependent on how much illumination his soul has received from his spirit’ – @MrThinkSmart #PurposeCourse

“Purpose is not subject to what’s in existence, Purpose may require bringing into existence what is not” – @MrThinkSmart #PurposeCourse

Purpose gives your future direction. #PurposeCourse

Until you have a future, you do not need a future partner. #PurposeCourse

To be Continued..... 

(Watch-out for Part Three)

Matthew Adedoyin is the Principal Consultant at ABSTINENCE ICON and President of Maximum Impact Network.
You can reach him on @AbstinenceIcon on 08087892722 or abstinenceicon@yahoo.com for any enquiries. #PurposeCourse
I want you to have a great relationship, enjoy the best of lives, and be sexually sane. It is possible. #PurposeCourse
For coaching, counselling, gisting, chatting, playing and learning, feel free to ping me – 55C67975 or call/whatsapp – 07060826979 #PurposeCourse

Culled from Purpose-Discovery Time-Out with OlaPurpose, #PurposeCourse, a weekly Twitter Basic Purpose Course host is @PurposeIcon, OlaPurpose James Asu, it comes up every Friday from 5-7pm.
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